Prayers of the Faithful - Des' Grandchildren
Abbey Conabere 8yrs:
Dear God. Please look after my grandpa in heaven. Thankyou papa for all those times you took us to the beach. We will remember you as loving, thoughtful and funny. Love Abbey
Ellie Vanden Boom 7yrs:
Thankyou papa for your courage and your strength. You make me smile all the time. I’m so sad that you left me. I hope your spirit is safe up in heaven. I miss you so much. Love Ellie
Jake van der Pligt 9yrs:
To papa I thought you were the best grandpa and I really miss you. I liked it when we went down to the park and you kicked the football with me and you also taught me how to kick drop punts. I hope nanna can kick a football. Love Jake
Holly van der Pligt 7yrs:
To Papa. I wish you were not gone. Now I can not have any coco pops. I think I can not take a week with out talking to you. I think you have a beautiful smile. It is so hard with out you. You always tell me the right thing to do. I do not think that I can play with nanna and not you too. Don’t get me started with all of the crying. You are a good grandpa. Good luck nana and the sisters. Love Holly
Ruby Vanden Boom 6yrs:
Dear Papa. I hope you’re good in heaven. I wish you stayed in your life a bit longer. I love you and I will always remember you. Just as you will always remember me, well I hope so. I hope you remember Inverloch and your beach house down there, including the 8 grandchildren. You were so good at looking after all the 8 grandchildren in the water and everywhere. I love you. Love Ruby.
Will Conabere 10yrs:
Dear God please keep my funny, caring and generous grandpa, Papa safe in heaven. Dear Papa I love you so much and I hope that you will remember all of the great times you had with me, the grandchildren and the whole family. You were an awesome grandpa and again I love you! Love Will (By the way, it was me who broke the toaster!)
Abbey Conabere 8yrs:
Dear God. Please look after my grandpa in heaven. Thankyou papa for all those times you took us to the beach. We will remember you as loving, thoughtful and funny. Love Abbey
Ellie Vanden Boom 7yrs:
Thankyou papa for your courage and your strength. You make me smile all the time. I’m so sad that you left me. I hope your spirit is safe up in heaven. I miss you so much. Love Ellie
Jake van der Pligt 9yrs:
To papa I thought you were the best grandpa and I really miss you. I liked it when we went down to the park and you kicked the football with me and you also taught me how to kick drop punts. I hope nanna can kick a football. Love Jake
Holly van der Pligt 7yrs:
To Papa. I wish you were not gone. Now I can not have any coco pops. I think I can not take a week with out talking to you. I think you have a beautiful smile. It is so hard with out you. You always tell me the right thing to do. I do not think that I can play with nanna and not you too. Don’t get me started with all of the crying. You are a good grandpa. Good luck nana and the sisters. Love Holly
Ruby Vanden Boom 6yrs:
Dear Papa. I hope you’re good in heaven. I wish you stayed in your life a bit longer. I love you and I will always remember you. Just as you will always remember me, well I hope so. I hope you remember Inverloch and your beach house down there, including the 8 grandchildren. You were so good at looking after all the 8 grandchildren in the water and everywhere. I love you. Love Ruby.
Will Conabere 10yrs:
Dear God please keep my funny, caring and generous grandpa, Papa safe in heaven. Dear Papa I love you so much and I hope that you will remember all of the great times you had with me, the grandchildren and the whole family. You were an awesome grandpa and again I love you! Love Will (By the way, it was me who broke the toaster!)
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Bruce Armstrong
Hi Jo
I have always admired your Dad mostly from afar - met him on 1 occasion at a birthday?? party at the Corralla's home in Power St Hawthorn and that time is still in my memmory.
Carmello and her mum and dad were exceptional neighbours to my parents and Des was extermelly loved by the Corolla's.
I have been a Hawthorn supporter/Member all my life and seeing Des play in my growing up days and then watch him coach his beloved Hawks made me admire him greatly.
I had no idea he was a sick man (I have just skimmed through your website - and will go back when I have more time)so my very late condolances to you and your family and am thrilled this is available for me to put words for your late dad.
All the very best Bruce Armstrong
Bruce Armstrong
Hi Jo
I have always admired your Dad mostly from afar - met him on 1 occasion at a birthday?? party at the Corralla's home in Power St Hawthorn and that time is still in my memmory.
Carmello and her mum and dad were exceptional neighbours to my parents and Des was extermelly loved by the Corolla's.
I have been a Hawthorn supporter/Member all my life and seeing Des play in my growing up days and then watch him coach his beloved Hawks made me admire him greatly.
I had no idea he was a sick man (I have just skimmed through your website - and will go back when I have more time)so my very late condolances to you and your family and am thrilled this is available for me to put words for your late dad.
All the very best Bruce Armstrong
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Patricia Barnett
My grandmother has asked me to pass on her condolences to you all. She worked for Des at the Box Hill Hospital and she has spoken so often about him that I almost felt I knew him myself.
Most recently Nana was telling me how Des loaned my father a suit so that he could attend the family court to fight for his children and at least be suitably dressed. He must have been a very kind and caring man and this website is a beautiful tribute. Nana is yet to trust the internet but I know she will love to see this wonderful tribute to Des, I'll make sure she sees it.
I believe Des and Nan visited my grandparents at their Toolangi property, they've now sold the property and live in Healesville.
Although it's been more than 25 years since my Grandmother worked for Des, she spoke often of him and always with the greatest regard and respect.
Our thoughts are with you all.
Nadine Cloonan (on behalf of Patricia Barnett).
Patricia Barnett
My grandmother has asked me to pass on her condolences to you all. She worked for Des at the Box Hill Hospital and she has spoken so often about him that I almost felt I knew him myself.
Most recently Nana was telling me how Des loaned my father a suit so that he could attend the family court to fight for his children and at least be suitably dressed. He must have been a very kind and caring man and this website is a beautiful tribute. Nana is yet to trust the internet but I know she will love to see this wonderful tribute to Des, I'll make sure she sees it.
I believe Des and Nan visited my grandparents at their Toolangi property, they've now sold the property and live in Healesville.
Although it's been more than 25 years since my Grandmother worked for Des, she spoke often of him and always with the greatest regard and respect.
Our thoughts are with you all.
Nadine Cloonan (on behalf of Patricia Barnett).
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Rohan Cameron
To the beautiful Nan, Jo, Lisa, Jane & Em,
Been thinking of you all lots lately, can only imagine the reality of your husbands/dads passing. Hope you are all getting the loving support you deserve. I'm sure you are...
I remember Des as a tough loving character. He was a man to look up to as a young fella growing up - hard working and loving to his family.
I imagine you all continuing to be an extremely strong family with Des's spirit driving you on.
Lots of love...
Roh, Sarah & Jack Cameron
Rohan Cameron
To the beautiful Nan, Jo, Lisa, Jane & Em,
Been thinking of you all lots lately, can only imagine the reality of your husbands/dads passing. Hope you are all getting the loving support you deserve. I'm sure you are...
I remember Des as a tough loving character. He was a man to look up to as a young fella growing up - hard working and loving to his family.
I imagine you all continuing to be an extremely strong family with Des's spirit driving you on.
Lots of love...
Roh, Sarah & Jack Cameron
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Jenny Douge
Dear Nan
I was so, so sad to hear of Des' passing from this world. He was a true champion and a gentleman. I have the fondest memories of you both back in the 70s at Hawthorn, so generous in both time and spirit.
I have heard of your beautiful girls; what a credit to both of you and what a comfort they will be now.
Hopefully you will soon see Des living on and growing in your family. I wish you strength and send you love as you find a new place for Des in your lives.
Love
Jenny
Jenny Douge
Dear Nan
I was so, so sad to hear of Des' passing from this world. He was a true champion and a gentleman. I have the fondest memories of you both back in the 70s at Hawthorn, so generous in both time and spirit.
I have heard of your beautiful girls; what a credit to both of you and what a comfort they will be now.
Hopefully you will soon see Des living on and growing in your family. I wish you strength and send you love as you find a new place for Des in your lives.
Love
Jenny
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Sam Clifford
A personal Blog piece written by Sam Clifford (neice): http://daretopublicise.blogspot.com/2011/03/say-goodnight-not-good-bye.html
Sam Clifford
A personal Blog piece written by Sam Clifford (neice): http://daretopublicise.blogspot.com/2011/03/say-goodnight-not-good-bye.html
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Nigel Woodworth
Nan,
Lorraine who is overseas in Shanghai (and was in Japan at the time) tried to send you this message yesterday when she first heard the sad news (using the email address [email protected] but it was returned).
Here is her message:
"Dear Nan,
I was stunned when I heard the news of Des's passing. Unfortunately none of us can choose a time. My heart goes out to you and your family. I could not make the service as I am in Shanghai at the moment however I am thinking of you and of the wonderful person Des was, and the number of people he has counselled, mentored and taught (especially in the pharmacy world) not only pharmacy, but humility and caring for others. I am sure he will be remembered by many people in this way.
Sincerely yours
Lorraine Woodworth"
Along with Lorraine I send my commisserations. Des will be sadly missed.
Our hearts go out to you and your family
Nigel
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John and Jenny Duguid
Dear Nan and family, I do not wish you to reply to this note but I am moved to write this note following the service today.
You must have been extremely proud to witness the genuine respect and love for Des and your family displayed by all at Des's funeral today. Your girls and their suppport team (Husbands and kids)were magnificent and you all showed great strength and poise throughout the service. Jenny,Charlie and I are privileged to have Lisa and Marc and the kids as next door neighbours and Kate and her family value greatly their friendship with Jane and her family. You and Des must have great satisfaction in knowing the result of your parenting has produced a Gold Medal result. Please accept our deepest sympathy on Des's passing and we know the happy memories and your close knit family and friends will help you through the difficult times. If there is anything we can do don't hesitate to call.
Love Jenny and John Duguid
Gwen Crimmins
Comment: Hi Nan and girls (and extended families),
When I think of Des I think of the fun times we had at the footy Club, the social events were our priorities.
Peter and Des shared so many milestones together. They both started their footy careers in 1966 at Hawthorn. Had their testimonials together. You were engaged a week before us, and we were married in a day of each other. We even had babies on the same night - visitors could see us both at the same time (we had rooms next to each other) what a hoot! Peter and Des had to get permission from the hospital to hold their babies for a photograph in "The Sun", how times have changed.
Thank goodness Des broke the trend and lived 34 years longer than Peter.
On a positive note he could see his children grow up, share many happy times with his grandchildren and many years with beautiful Nan. His passing is still too soon, he looked like he would be with us forever.
I feel for you Nan, I will always be there for you. Hopefully the beautiful memories you have of Des, your wonderful family, and many, many caring friends will give you strength in the months and years ahead.
Love Gwen x
Comment: Hi Nan and girls (and extended families),
When I think of Des I think of the fun times we had at the footy Club, the social events were our priorities.
Peter and Des shared so many milestones together. They both started their footy careers in 1966 at Hawthorn. Had their testimonials together. You were engaged a week before us, and we were married in a day of each other. We even had babies on the same night - visitors could see us both at the same time (we had rooms next to each other) what a hoot! Peter and Des had to get permission from the hospital to hold their babies for a photograph in "The Sun", how times have changed.
Thank goodness Des broke the trend and lived 34 years longer than Peter.
On a positive note he could see his children grow up, share many happy times with his grandchildren and many years with beautiful Nan. His passing is still too soon, he looked like he would be with us forever.
I feel for you Nan, I will always be there for you. Hopefully the beautiful memories you have of Des, your wonderful family, and many, many caring friends will give you strength in the months and years ahead.
Love Gwen x
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Andrew Collins
I am very saddened by the death of Des . I feel a need to thank you (his family) for allowing Des to coach us and in particular the impact he had on my personal career.
He taught me about the importance of work rate and pushing the body to its limits. Preseason after preseason I followed Des around the streets of Burwood and Up and down the 500m 2nd hole of wattle Park. Each year We got closer and closer to him but very rarely did anyone beat him back to the university. He listened patiently to a frustrated kid wanting to play seniors then simply say you need to work harder and challenge me to be fitter .Des was also a chemist a Box Hill Hospital where my Dad was ill. It was sensational to have a coffee and talk about Hawthorn and his coaching style and share a laugh about the brutal runs he would lead us on in the middle of summer.
He was a great man.
I am sorry for you loss
Regards,
Andrew Collins
Andrew Collins
I am very saddened by the death of Des . I feel a need to thank you (his family) for allowing Des to coach us and in particular the impact he had on my personal career.
He taught me about the importance of work rate and pushing the body to its limits. Preseason after preseason I followed Des around the streets of Burwood and Up and down the 500m 2nd hole of wattle Park. Each year We got closer and closer to him but very rarely did anyone beat him back to the university. He listened patiently to a frustrated kid wanting to play seniors then simply say you need to work harder and challenge me to be fitter .Des was also a chemist a Box Hill Hospital where my Dad was ill. It was sensational to have a coffee and talk about Hawthorn and his coaching style and share a laugh about the brutal runs he would lead us on in the middle of summer.
He was a great man.
I am sorry for you loss
Regards,
Andrew Collins
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Bernie Crimmins
My sincerest sympathy at the passing of Des. He was a great footy mate to my late brother Peter as well as a fantastic room-mate of mine on overseas trips. I specifically remember the wonderful walk and talk with him through London on one trip
Bernie Crimmins
My sincerest sympathy at the passing of Des. He was a great footy mate to my late brother Peter as well as a fantastic room-mate of mine on overseas trips. I specifically remember the wonderful walk and talk with him through London on one trip
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Terry & Keryn Wallace
Dear Nan and Girls.
Very sorry to hear the news of Des's passing.A great man with great principles. His discipline but more so friendship had a huge influence on me as a young man.
Thinking of all the family at this sad time.
Terry,Keryn and Family
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Gary Ayres
Nan and family very saddened to hear of the sudden loss of Desi and sincere and deepest sympathy to all. He was a great man and I will always remember him with a glass of red in one hand and also I cannot thank him enough because of anything that I achieved through my football life I owe a lot to him. Gary Ayres
Gary Ayres
Nan and family very saddened to hear of the sudden loss of Desi and sincere and deepest sympathy to all. He was a great man and I will always remember him with a glass of red in one hand and also I cannot thank him enough because of anything that I achieved through my football life I owe a lot to him. Gary Ayres
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Ken Judge
Nan and family
Really sad to hear the news a fantastic bloke.
So healthy why?
How does life work?
No one can explain!!!
With the strength that Des has shown and displayed all of his life i know you guys will survive on that.
Ken and Annette Judge
Ken Judge
Nan and family
Really sad to hear the news a fantastic bloke.
So healthy why?
How does life work?
No one can explain!!!
With the strength that Des has shown and displayed all of his life i know you guys will survive on that.
Ken and Annette Judge
Bob Keddie
Comment: Dear Nan
I wanted you to know that I only found out about Des today - so watching the '71 game on Saturday is hard to reconcile. As you know better than all, Des was his own man - with such a friendly smile. On one occasion at half time at Glenferrie, Kanga was giving us a real paste. As he took a breath, Des (in his usual seat at the end of the hot box in the dungeon)suddenly shouted 'bullshit'. With the sudden silence from all the other players,we waited for Kanga's response. It was both frightening and humourous. Des spoke his piece as usual and I still believe that Kanga was lost for words. i don't remember the result but I will always recall Des being himself. He has and will always remain an exceptional man in all facets of life. He was a wonderful role model to so many and always accepted every challenge with gusto and grit. A genuinely skilful person in sport and life. My thoughts remain with you and your children as well as my deepest wish that Des will again overcome adversity. I have such wonderful memories of both of you smiling and laughing in the times of football when friends were real and remain so today.
Again Nan, whatever it takes, your extended family will do - as we always have.
Love
Bob K
Comment: Dear Nan
I wanted you to know that I only found out about Des today - so watching the '71 game on Saturday is hard to reconcile. As you know better than all, Des was his own man - with such a friendly smile. On one occasion at half time at Glenferrie, Kanga was giving us a real paste. As he took a breath, Des (in his usual seat at the end of the hot box in the dungeon)suddenly shouted 'bullshit'. With the sudden silence from all the other players,we waited for Kanga's response. It was both frightening and humourous. Des spoke his piece as usual and I still believe that Kanga was lost for words. i don't remember the result but I will always recall Des being himself. He has and will always remain an exceptional man in all facets of life. He was a wonderful role model to so many and always accepted every challenge with gusto and grit. A genuinely skilful person in sport and life. My thoughts remain with you and your children as well as my deepest wish that Des will again overcome adversity. I have such wonderful memories of both of you smiling and laughing in the times of football when friends were real and remain so today.
Again Nan, whatever it takes, your extended family will do - as we always have.
Love
Bob K
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Anthony Condon
To the meagher family.
I Just wanted to pass on my thoughts to your family at this tough time. I understand what you are going through having lost my father last year. DES had a huge influence on me as a person and footballer and taught me so many valuable life lessons through my time when he was my coach..
I wish him all the very best in his recovery and am sure if anyone can overcome this then DES can..
Regards
Anthony Condon
Anthony Condon
To the meagher family.
I Just wanted to pass on my thoughts to your family at this tough time. I understand what you are going through having lost my father last year. DES had a huge influence on me as a person and footballer and taught me so many valuable life lessons through my time when he was my coach..
I wish him all the very best in his recovery and am sure if anyone can overcome this then DES can..
Regards
Anthony Condon
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Joe Gelb
My sincerest condolences to the family.
May you find comfort and healing in knowing that Des was held in the highest esteem by his pharmacist colleagues. His help and advice to fellow pharmacists was greatly appreciated by all who valued his expertise and his dedication to patients' wellbeing. His readiness to go to great lengths to provide the latest information or an unusual drug was legendary.
My partners and I mourn with you on your great loss.
Joe Gelb
Blackburn Clinic and Knox Hospital
Joe Gelb
My sincerest condolences to the family.
May you find comfort and healing in knowing that Des was held in the highest esteem by his pharmacist colleagues. His help and advice to fellow pharmacists was greatly appreciated by all who valued his expertise and his dedication to patients' wellbeing. His readiness to go to great lengths to provide the latest information or an unusual drug was legendary.
My partners and I mourn with you on your great loss.
Joe Gelb
Blackburn Clinic and Knox Hospital
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Bob Keddie
My dear Nan
I always viewed Des as such a wonderful family man who also reached out in his own way to others. As with everyone else, I am totally numbed by this sad news. My genuine thoughts go out to you and I pray that you can muster the strength to go the distance with Des. He always greeted me with a smile and a handshake - a sign of his respect for those who knew him well. His life endeavours and achievements have been testimony to his desire to excel while contributing to the welfare of his mates and friends.
No words can explain how shocked I am Nan. I have not watched the '71 GF for some years, but I did on Sunday ! I can't explain the connection, but I can say what a great game and role Des played in us winning. His last quarter was exceptional and his spirit to play on regardless put others in the same frame of mind. His fierce desire to be a winner has not been lost. He has that spirit which so many haven't experienced.
My deepest thoughts go to you. Use your wonderful love of friends and family to help you muster strength when you feel down. You know and Des must also know that there is a wave of support for all of you and anything that needs to be done - will be done.
Love and sincere thoughts to you and the children and a very special prayer for Des.
Bob K
Bob Keddie
My dear Nan
I always viewed Des as such a wonderful family man who also reached out in his own way to others. As with everyone else, I am totally numbed by this sad news. My genuine thoughts go out to you and I pray that you can muster the strength to go the distance with Des. He always greeted me with a smile and a handshake - a sign of his respect for those who knew him well. His life endeavours and achievements have been testimony to his desire to excel while contributing to the welfare of his mates and friends.
No words can explain how shocked I am Nan. I have not watched the '71 GF for some years, but I did on Sunday ! I can't explain the connection, but I can say what a great game and role Des played in us winning. His last quarter was exceptional and his spirit to play on regardless put others in the same frame of mind. His fierce desire to be a winner has not been lost. He has that spirit which so many haven't experienced.
My deepest thoughts go to you. Use your wonderful love of friends and family to help you muster strength when you feel down. You know and Des must also know that there is a wave of support for all of you and anything that needs to be done - will be done.
Love and sincere thoughts to you and the children and a very special prayer for Des.
Bob K
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Jake van der pligt
To papa I thought you were a realy good grandpa and you were realy nice. I loved you so much and I'm realy sad you are gone
From Jake
Jake van der pligt
To papa I thought you were a realy good grandpa and you were realy nice. I loved you so much and I'm realy sad you are gone
From Jake
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Lesley Dunne
Dear Nan and family,
My heart goes out to you for your loss.
I can only try to imagine what you are going through but I just wanted you to know I am thinking of you.
Love Lesley Dunne
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Jenny Brown
My deepest sympathies go to Nan, Em & Lisa and the extended Meagher family on the untimely passing of Des. My thoughts go back to the late 60’s when David Parkin brought Des along to a Camberwell Baptist FC presentation night – first time the Bapts had had a true “left footer” within their walls !? And then to work with Des during his time at Hawthorn … many laughs and quite a few reds along the way. And then as “round the corner neighbours” at Inverloch. Oh, I will miss you Des, but you’ll never be far from my thoughts – every time I see that No. 30 brown and gold jumper. Lots of love Jen
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lorraine and bob cullen
Love to hear from you:
Dear dear Nanny and girls, we are so sorry and are thinking of you all at this sad time.; But what wonderful memories you have of a great husband,a dad and grandpa. he was certainly a much admired man with a wicked sense of humour. love lorraine and bob.
lorraine and bob cullen
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Dear dear Nanny and girls, we are so sorry and are thinking of you all at this sad time.; But what wonderful memories you have of a great husband,a dad and grandpa. he was certainly a much admired man with a wicked sense of humour. love lorraine and bob.
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Phil Box
Love to hear from you:
Hi Nan, Jo, Leece, Jane & Em,
really sorry to hear the news on the passing of Des. I run past your old house often and remember many happy times (though hope that that tennis court has been concreted over. I couldn't even win a set off Em and i think she was finishing primary school and i was starting uni.) Do think of you all often and wonder how you are all getting on. Thinking of you all and hope that there are peaceful times ahead soon. (In terms of my running, Des would be glad to know that I am still the 'slow loafer' that he affectionately (I think!)called me on more than one occasion!) When I kick the footy with my sons, I still can't 'kick over a jam jar' which I'm sure would please Des as that was once his accurate description!)He would perhaps be mortified that they barrack for Essendon and I'm not quite sure how that transpired. Hope you can find comfort in the coming days.
Take care, Phil, Ali, Toby, Emily & Sam Box
Phil Box
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Hi Nan, Jo, Leece, Jane & Em,
really sorry to hear the news on the passing of Des. I run past your old house often and remember many happy times (though hope that that tennis court has been concreted over. I couldn't even win a set off Em and i think she was finishing primary school and i was starting uni.) Do think of you all often and wonder how you are all getting on. Thinking of you all and hope that there are peaceful times ahead soon. (In terms of my running, Des would be glad to know that I am still the 'slow loafer' that he affectionately (I think!)called me on more than one occasion!) When I kick the footy with my sons, I still can't 'kick over a jam jar' which I'm sure would please Des as that was once his accurate description!)He would perhaps be mortified that they barrack for Essendon and I'm not quite sure how that transpired. Hope you can find comfort in the coming days.
Take care, Phil, Ali, Toby, Emily & Sam Box
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Bob & Pauline Brown
Oh Nan, What tragic news!!
You have only come into our lives in recent years, but what an impact you have made.
I remember Des trying to get me motivated to get fit and go for a "short" ride with him. His short ride was Inverloch to Leongatha with a big loop back! I used to tease him by saying that "you'll be sorry, I am very competitive", knowing full well that I was talking to one of the most driven, motivated men I had ever met!
I was looking forward to having Des help me with my re-hab after a new knee. Not going to happen now, but I know what Des would expect me to do. I think of him every step!
Our heart felt love goes to you and the family. Strength to you all.
Love,
Pauline & Bob
Bob & Pauline Brown
Oh Nan, What tragic news!!
You have only come into our lives in recent years, but what an impact you have made.
I remember Des trying to get me motivated to get fit and go for a "short" ride with him. His short ride was Inverloch to Leongatha with a big loop back! I used to tease him by saying that "you'll be sorry, I am very competitive", knowing full well that I was talking to one of the most driven, motivated men I had ever met!
I was looking forward to having Des help me with my re-hab after a new knee. Not going to happen now, but I know what Des would expect me to do. I think of him every step!
Our heart felt love goes to you and the family. Strength to you all.
Love,
Pauline & Bob
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Andrew Thomas
To Jo and the family,
Condolences on the loss of a wonderful man.
Having known him through Jo & Whitefriars, he was a man of true character and demanded the same from those he knew.
Andrew
Andrew Thomas
To Jo and the family,
Condolences on the loss of a wonderful man.
Having known him through Jo & Whitefriars, he was a man of true character and demanded the same from those he knew.
Andrew
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Emma Campbell
Dearest Jane,
I wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, and always in my heart gorgeous girl. Your Dad, was a wonderful man, direct, blunt and cheeky!I remember him saying to me "You could be a much better tennis player if you ran around the court some more!!". Standing in your kitchen, him towering over us and your beautiful mum giggling!! Such a happy home!! I heard the news on Friday and was wondering how to contact you, then i opened facebook this morning and Sam sent me an email with these contact details. Good Old Sam, she's a good girl!!
I'm sorry I won't be able to pay my respects at the funeral tomorrow, but I'm sure your Dad won't mind because i have just had a baby boy and I have been told he is a Hawthorn supporter. Mmmmmm we will see about that!!
Thinking of you Jane, and please pass on my love to your mum and sisters!
Lots of Love Em xxx
Emma Campbell
Dearest Jane,
I wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, and always in my heart gorgeous girl. Your Dad, was a wonderful man, direct, blunt and cheeky!I remember him saying to me "You could be a much better tennis player if you ran around the court some more!!". Standing in your kitchen, him towering over us and your beautiful mum giggling!! Such a happy home!! I heard the news on Friday and was wondering how to contact you, then i opened facebook this morning and Sam sent me an email with these contact details. Good Old Sam, she's a good girl!!
I'm sorry I won't be able to pay my respects at the funeral tomorrow, but I'm sure your Dad won't mind because i have just had a baby boy and I have been told he is a Hawthorn supporter. Mmmmmm we will see about that!!
Thinking of you Jane, and please pass on my love to your mum and sisters!
Lots of Love Em xxx
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Gav & Sue Hegan
Dear Nan, Joey, Lisa, Jane and family,
We are deeply saddened & shocked to learn of the loss of a much loved husband, father and grandad "Dessy". Great memories of Des down at Inverloch over the last few years with his family, particularly when fishing with ALL the grandkids!!! Great concept too this weebly setup girls!!
Our sincerest condolences to you all and our thoughts are very much with you at this sad time.
Gav, Sue, Laura & James
Gav & Sue Hegan
Dear Nan, Joey, Lisa, Jane and family,
We are deeply saddened & shocked to learn of the loss of a much loved husband, father and grandad "Dessy". Great memories of Des down at Inverloch over the last few years with his family, particularly when fishing with ALL the grandkids!!! Great concept too this weebly setup girls!!
Our sincerest condolences to you all and our thoughts are very much with you at this sad time.
Gav, Sue, Laura & James
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Marj Coghlan
Love to hear from you:
Dear Nan, Jane & Emma,
My deepest sympathy to all. What a terrible shock for you! We thing the 'fit' people are invincible! What a wonderfully fulfilling life he had - seeing his much-loved family flourish and giving so much joy to the wider community! Our prayers are with you all at this time.
Much love, Marj.Coghlan
Marj Coghlan
Love to hear from you:
Dear Nan, Jane & Emma,
My deepest sympathy to all. What a terrible shock for you! We thing the 'fit' people are invincible! What a wonderfully fulfilling life he had - seeing his much-loved family flourish and giving so much joy to the wider community! Our prayers are with you all at this time.
Much love, Marj.Coghlan
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James Malkin
Dear Nan & the girls & extended family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I regret that it's been so many years since I've last spent time with Dessy and you all. But my memories of him are so fond. Days at Inverloch and family get togethers at Pam & Bob's are some of my most cherished growing up. And Des is a big part of the reason why I'm today such a proud Hawks supporter.
I live in Sydney now, and am trying to be there on Tuesday, but should I not make it, please know that my thoughts are with you, and I know that the whole family will be strong and go forward with the spirit and love and humour that Dessy so beautifully embodied throughout his life.
Lots of love
James Malkin (Chris & Toby's son).
James Malkin
Dear Nan & the girls & extended family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I regret that it's been so many years since I've last spent time with Dessy and you all. But my memories of him are so fond. Days at Inverloch and family get togethers at Pam & Bob's are some of my most cherished growing up. And Des is a big part of the reason why I'm today such a proud Hawks supporter.
I live in Sydney now, and am trying to be there on Tuesday, but should I not make it, please know that my thoughts are with you, and I know that the whole family will be strong and go forward with the spirit and love and humour that Dessy so beautifully embodied throughout his life.
Lots of love
James Malkin (Chris & Toby's son).
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David Nairn
My daughters and I are saddened by this news.
We remember how Des and Sue worked so well together at Box Hill, and later at Donvale, where Des was so sensitive, supportive and sensible of her during her illness.
Des deserved a long and happy retirement. Reading the notes on the blog, it seems it was very happy, just cut cruelly short.
We are thinking of you and know that the days ahead will be difficult, and that your family and friends will be there to help you through.
With our sympathy
David, Kate, Lucy and families.
David Nairn
My daughters and I are saddened by this news.
We remember how Des and Sue worked so well together at Box Hill, and later at Donvale, where Des was so sensitive, supportive and sensible of her during her illness.
Des deserved a long and happy retirement. Reading the notes on the blog, it seems it was very happy, just cut cruelly short.
We are thinking of you and know that the days ahead will be difficult, and that your family and friends will be there to help you through.
With our sympathy
David, Kate, Lucy and families.
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Geoff,Denise Angus
Dear Nan and girls.
Please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of Des.
It was such a privilege to have known the man of clever wit,mischievous smile and can do attitude.
Love
Denise and Geoff Angus
Geoff,Denise Angus
Dear Nan and girls.
Please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of Des.
It was such a privilege to have known the man of clever wit,mischievous smile and can do attitude.
Love
Denise and Geoff Angus
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lorraine cullen
Nanny and girls, so so sorry to hear about Des. but what wonderful memories you have and what a great guy he was with a very wicked sence of humour. life just never seems to amaze us and sonmetimes it is not fair. all our love lorraine and bobby
lorraine cullen
Nanny and girls, so so sorry to hear about Des. but what wonderful memories you have and what a great guy he was with a very wicked sence of humour. life just never seems to amaze us and sonmetimes it is not fair. all our love lorraine and bobby
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Matt Houston
Des and Meagher Family ,
Dont know what to say really. Im shattered.
He lived up the road but i ran into him before a game at the London. I love the Hawks like Des did. wont be the same at a hawks game from now on. I know hell be their in spirit.Love to all the family and best wishes. Matt , sam and oscar.
Matt Houston
Des and Meagher Family ,
Dont know what to say really. Im shattered.
He lived up the road but i ran into him before a game at the London. I love the Hawks like Des did. wont be the same at a hawks game from now on. I know hell be their in spirit.Love to all the family and best wishes. Matt , sam and oscar.
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Gallacher Family
Dearest Nan, Jo, Lisa, Jane and Emma
We are all so shocked and saddened to hear that Des has died. We had such great times when all our children were growing up. Michael, David and Jane have fond memories of Des "always making them laugh". Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Gallacher Family
Gallacher Family
Dearest Nan, Jo, Lisa, Jane and Emma
We are all so shocked and saddened to hear that Des has died. We had such great times when all our children were growing up. Michael, David and Jane have fond memories of Des "always making them laugh". Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Gallacher Family
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Lorraine Broun
Dear Nan,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Des. I was really shocked. He was always larger than life and a terrific guy. It was so sad to read the blog. The time ahead is a hard road so don't push yourself. I know your girls will be there for you. I would like to be there next week but I am not sure I can. I will be praying for you all.
With love and big hugs,
Lorraine.
Lorraine Broun
Dear Nan,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Des. I was really shocked. He was always larger than life and a terrific guy. It was so sad to read the blog. The time ahead is a hard road so don't push yourself. I know your girls will be there for you. I would like to be there next week but I am not sure I can. I will be praying for you all.
With love and big hugs,
Lorraine.
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Chris McNamara
Hi Jo @ all your family,
Deepest sympathy on the loss of Des, husband, Dad @ grandpa.
My mum passed away January 14, life will never be the same, look after your mum.
Our lives have changed but the loss of a family member touches us all.
Regards
Chris McNamara
Chris McNamara
Hi Jo @ all your family,
Deepest sympathy on the loss of Des, husband, Dad @ grandpa.
My mum passed away January 14, life will never be the same, look after your mum.
Our lives have changed but the loss of a family member touches us all.
Regards
Chris McNamara
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Re
Hi Guys
We have been following Des' website to keep up with what is happening and as a way of sharing some of your highs and lows. The distance has never felt as great as the last week. Wish I could be there to give you all a hug but I hope you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers all the time and how much we love you all.
Give a special hug to Papa from Re andFrank. Speak soon. All our love Frank & Re xx
Re
Hi Guys
We have been following Des' website to keep up with what is happening and as a way of sharing some of your highs and lows. The distance has never felt as great as the last week. Wish I could be there to give you all a hug but I hope you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers all the time and how much we love you all.
Give a special hug to Papa from Re andFrank. Speak soon. All our love Frank & Re xx
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Gary Buckenara
Des, Nan, family and extended family....Boy so sorry to hear this news Desi but with such great support around you I am sure it wish make to road ahead a little easier to travel! I am thinking of you Des and hope your progress is a steady one from here onwards! If you use that same fierce determination you had a player, coach and running those bloody hills at "wattle park" then you will be half way there mate! Take care and best wishes to you all...Bucky
Gary Buckenara
Des, Nan, family and extended family....Boy so sorry to hear this news Desi but with such great support around you I am sure it wish make to road ahead a little easier to travel! I am thinking of you Des and hope your progress is a steady one from here onwards! If you use that same fierce determination you had a player, coach and running those bloody hills at "wattle park" then you will be half way there mate! Take care and best wishes to you all...Bucky
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Annette Buckenara
Just finished reading all on your blog OMG Nan I cant believe I just saw you only a few weeks ago, and had seen Des in at work and thank god gave him a big hug & kiss. Sounds like tough Des is shinning through and he wont give up - tell him I still remember Gary saying what he put them through at Wattle Park!I'm sure a few of the boys would love to help him on the road to recovery..... He is a tough bugger he will get there, plus he has all you girls telling him off! We are thinking of you all. Gary & I are coming over on the 18th March so will give you a call. All our love to you all from the Bucky's xx
Annette Buckenara
Just finished reading all on your blog OMG Nan I cant believe I just saw you only a few weeks ago, and had seen Des in at work and thank god gave him a big hug & kiss. Sounds like tough Des is shinning through and he wont give up - tell him I still remember Gary saying what he put them through at Wattle Park!I'm sure a few of the boys would love to help him on the road to recovery..... He is a tough bugger he will get there, plus he has all you girls telling him off! We are thinking of you all. Gary & I are coming over on the 18th March so will give you a call. All our love to you all from the Bucky's xx
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Paul and Marilla Greenhalgh
We are shocked and saddened to hear the news. Please send our best wishes to Des and our love and thoughts are with you all at this time. We can not imagine what this is like and just want you to know that we are sending lots of postive energy our there in the hope that this nightmare is over soon!LOTS OF LOVE FROM THE GRENHALGH GANG XXXXXXXXXXX
Paul and Marilla Greenhalgh
We are shocked and saddened to hear the news. Please send our best wishes to Des and our love and thoughts are with you all at this time. We can not imagine what this is like and just want you to know that we are sending lots of postive energy our there in the hope that this nightmare is over soon!LOTS OF LOVE FROM THE GRENHALGH GANG XXXXXXXXXXX
Ray Wilson
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 16:12:27
Nan and girls
Devastated to learn of this. Des and I roomed on a Victorian Amateur trip and played our first games for Hawthorn the same day. Remarkably, shining through the physical disaster is Des's special and unique humour - sharp, biting, and so funny. He is an original, and I treasure having had the pleasure to experience his company. I admire your bravery in compiling the blog, and will follow it and desperately hope to read more good news. Margaret joins in sending good wishes to you all.
Sparksy
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 16:25:00
Des , sorry to hear about your terrible misfortune. I always think of you when recalling my 2nd , (and total ) of games played for the Hawks . Kanga dragged me in favour of you just before half time of the game against South at Princes Park (1976) . He wanted a mud-runner on the field rather than a classy goal kicker I guess .
Now if you 're looking for some real music to inspire you on your road to recovery , and you will recover Des , go to my website and listen to the sampler of my CD "Golfs Greatest Hits " by the Great Grey Spark . If you like , and if one of your beautiful daughters could come back to me with an address , the full cd , and personally signed ( autographed ) (( unlike you Des, I only had a couple of opportunities to sign autographs back then )) by the Great Grey Spark will be on its way.
I didn't realise until I saw you just had your 67th that we played in the same team 35 years ago, with 14 years between us old man . You're still not too old to get over this though Des . Give it your best shot
Regards Sparksy (Graeme Spark )
Robert Day
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 17:29:41
Nan
Great Blog you must be proud that I found it !!
Look after him and yourself.
Love to the Family
Rob and Yvonne
Sam Clifford
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 01:23:57
What beautiful birthday cards from the grandkids! Happy Birthday Dessie. Keep up the fight and the 'magical hospital moments.' Love to all the family. Sam, Cliff, Ollie and Macey x
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 16:12:27
Nan and girls
Devastated to learn of this. Des and I roomed on a Victorian Amateur trip and played our first games for Hawthorn the same day. Remarkably, shining through the physical disaster is Des's special and unique humour - sharp, biting, and so funny. He is an original, and I treasure having had the pleasure to experience his company. I admire your bravery in compiling the blog, and will follow it and desperately hope to read more good news. Margaret joins in sending good wishes to you all.
Sparksy
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 16:25:00
Des , sorry to hear about your terrible misfortune. I always think of you when recalling my 2nd , (and total ) of games played for the Hawks . Kanga dragged me in favour of you just before half time of the game against South at Princes Park (1976) . He wanted a mud-runner on the field rather than a classy goal kicker I guess .
Now if you 're looking for some real music to inspire you on your road to recovery , and you will recover Des , go to my website and listen to the sampler of my CD "Golfs Greatest Hits " by the Great Grey Spark . If you like , and if one of your beautiful daughters could come back to me with an address , the full cd , and personally signed ( autographed ) (( unlike you Des, I only had a couple of opportunities to sign autographs back then )) by the Great Grey Spark will be on its way.
I didn't realise until I saw you just had your 67th that we played in the same team 35 years ago, with 14 years between us old man . You're still not too old to get over this though Des . Give it your best shot
Regards Sparksy (Graeme Spark )
Robert Day
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 17:29:41
Nan
Great Blog you must be proud that I found it !!
Look after him and yourself.
Love to the Family
Rob and Yvonne
Sam Clifford
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 01:23:57
What beautiful birthday cards from the grandkids! Happy Birthday Dessie. Keep up the fight and the 'magical hospital moments.' Love to all the family. Sam, Cliff, Ollie and Macey x
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Jarrod & Jenny Meagher
Dear Nan, Des, Jo, Emma, Jane and Lisa,
We have been thinking of you over the past week.
We wish you all strength in the days of recovery ahead and remember to call on any of us when you need anything.
All our love and best wishes,
Jarrod and Jenny
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Ian & Barb Law
Dear Nan & the Girls,if anyone can " pull Des through" you lot will,your great humor and strenght will help Des"GET UP" (to quote"Kanga") laughter is the best medicine, it will be a rocky road for a while but we are sure you will get there. We will keep in touch.Lots of Love, Thanks for the
Blog Liberty & Barb
Link: http://sites.google.com/site/avocaondarling/
Ian & Barb Law
Dear Nan & the Girls,if anyone can " pull Des through" you lot will,your great humor and strenght will help Des"GET UP" (to quote"Kanga") laughter is the best medicine, it will be a rocky road for a while but we are sure you will get there. We will keep in touch.Lots of Love, Thanks for the
Blog Liberty & Barb
Link: http://sites.google.com/site/avocaondarling/
Steve and Amy
Tue, 08 March 2011
Des we wish you a speedy recovery, love and best wishes to Nan and all the Meagher family.
Your neighbours in Inverloch Amy and Steve
Tue, 08 March 2011
Des we wish you a speedy recovery, love and best wishes to Nan and all the Meagher family.
Your neighbours in Inverloch Amy and Steve
Lani
Tue, 08 March 2011
We are all terribly saddened to hear the news Des. With such a beautiful family supporting your recovery, lets hope its a speedy one. Love to all you girls and extended family. You are doing a super job!! Lani, Mel, Mim, Harry and Lewis.
Tue, 08 March 2011
We are all terribly saddened to hear the news Des. With such a beautiful family supporting your recovery, lets hope its a speedy one. Love to all you girls and extended family. You are doing a super job!! Lani, Mel, Mim, Harry and Lewis.
Paul Greenhalgh
Tue, 08 March 2011
THANK YOU for puting this blog together!!!! I have felt helpless down here in Cape and this helps enormously keep in touch without interferring (i hope!)
I dont expect any return to this - writing this helps me to feel a connection to the amazingly wonderful Meagher family.
We have ALWAYS been made to feel welcome into your family Nan/Des and we deeply appreciate your kindness.
All my love to you and Des X
Ron Beattie
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 18:44:40
Long time since I've seen Des, but it seems ironic that this happened at the time of a Past Players function at Pakenham races. Also felt prompted to send my best after visiting my youngest sister on Monday 7th at Monash and getting some not so great news. Des must have actually been somewhere very nearby.
Sincere best wishes and strength to Des and his family. Trusting he can pull through and continue to be a valued part of your daily lives.
Ron Beattie
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Jenny Brown
Hi Nan
So sorry to hear about Des, but as we all know he can be a stubborn old bugger so I am hoping for a marked improvement over the days and weeks to come.
You are all in my thoughts and I look forward to keeping up to date with what's happening with what will now become my daily visits to your blog.
Lots of love
Jen
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Charles
Hi Nan and Des. Thinking of you both. Love the blog stuff from the fam et al. Your love for Des shines through brilliantly. I love him too!!
Charles
Hi Nan and Des. Thinking of you both. Love the blog stuff from the fam et al. Your love for Des shines through brilliantly. I love him too!!
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Jen
You are all truly beautiful! Blessed to have each other and I feel blessed to know you- Go Dezzi-Love u Nanni and thankyou for this wonderful connection xx oo xx
Jen
You are all truly beautiful! Blessed to have each other and I feel blessed to know you- Go Dezzi-Love u Nanni and thankyou for this wonderful connection xx oo xx
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Carlo Corallo
Dear Des, great to hear you are doing really well.
Saying lots of prayers for a speedy recovery.
We need you for the next BBQ at Seville.
Lots of love, the Corallo's
Ian Bremner
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 15:28:06
So shocked and saddened to hear about Des, it's certainly a wake up for all of us that reckon we are bullet proof, for if this can happen to a super fit bloke like Des then it can happen to any of us !
Amyway with his wry sense of humour and courage if anyone can pull through this then Des can
Love to Nan and the Kids,
Squirrel (Brem)
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 15:28:06
So shocked and saddened to hear about Des, it's certainly a wake up for all of us that reckon we are bullet proof, for if this can happen to a super fit bloke like Des then it can happen to any of us !
Amyway with his wry sense of humour and courage if anyone can pull through this then Des can
Love to Nan and the Kids,
Squirrel (Brem)
Claire Clifford 'Farty'
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 03:47:56
Wouldn't be the first time Dessy has dropped the 'F' bomb after many years of watching us play tennis! Slice backhand coming your way Des! Wish I was there and sending all our prayers, hope and love to you all...a true fighter who I know won't give up x
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 03:47:56
Wouldn't be the first time Dessy has dropped the 'F' bomb after many years of watching us play tennis! Slice backhand coming your way Des! Wish I was there and sending all our prayers, hope and love to you all...a true fighter who I know won't give up x
Kimberley Meagher
Sun, 06 Mar 2011 13:34:45
Happy Birthday Uncle Des, keep strong, keep fighting. xo
Thanks Jane, will be reading and keeping up to date. My thoughts and love are with you, Nan and everyone, but especially with Des.
John Duguid
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 00:02:29
Dear Jane Lisa and families, To you both you are wonderful products of a great bloke. Please pass on to your mum and Des, Jenny and my best wishes and prayers for a speedy recovery. If any body can do it Des can and I still want to see his world champ golf club throwing performance.
Love, Jenny and John Duguid
Sun, 06 Mar 2011 13:34:45
Happy Birthday Uncle Des, keep strong, keep fighting. xo
Thanks Jane, will be reading and keeping up to date. My thoughts and love are with you, Nan and everyone, but especially with Des.
John Duguid
Mon, 07 Mar 2011 00:02:29
Dear Jane Lisa and families, To you both you are wonderful products of a great bloke. Please pass on to your mum and Des, Jenny and my best wishes and prayers for a speedy recovery. If any body can do it Des can and I still want to see his world champ golf club throwing performance.
Love, Jenny and John Duguid
